Uganda – From a Visitor’s Perspective

As we have mentioned before, we love hosting visitors! We are so thankful when people make the sacrifice of time and finances to come experience Uganda with us. Not only do they get to see the ministry, but they can also relate to our life a little better. In March, we had some very dear friends come to visit and we asked them to share their thoughts about their visit to Uganda. Hopefully this will encourage YOU to come visit, too!

What are some things that stood out to you while visiting Uganda?

“People seem to genuinely care for each other and look out for each other, such as helping each other in the marketplace, asking about each others’ families, children taking care of the younger ones, etc. We enjoyed getting a taste of daily life like driving, shopping, and meeting with various people in different villages. The coffee tour was also incredible to see where and how production happens, and to hear the detailed process and how integral relationships in the community are to ministry. We got a glimpse of how relationships are key here. In regards to safari, it was like being in “National Geographic”- it was amazing to see so much beautiful creation in one setting.”

Were there any cultural habits or traditions that stood out?

“It was impactful to see the social significance of the mission work through building relationships with so many people. Being including in those interactions and relationships was meaningful to us. We enjoyed witnessing the importance of speaking local languages like Luganda, but also seeing the country’s emphasis on English being more widespread with the upcoming generations. We also enjoyed hearing different phrases in ways we wouldn’t normally use, like ‘You’re welcome’ when coming into a someone’s home or the church, or ‘Praise God’ as an initial greeting with someone. The other thing that stood out to us was the meal rituals of washing visitors’ hands before eating and serving the visitors’ food – it seemed like more relationship building and serving one another.”

What was difficult for you to see?

“Life seems tough. It seems that many people, especially children seem to be missing a purpose of structure to engage, which could lead to problems like boredom, lack of education, limiting personal or community growth, improving living conditions, etc. It was hard to see poverty all around us, without simple solutions to help.”

What felt similar to your life back in the U.S.?

“Daily life seems to be similar to ours: shopping, eating, household chores, dressing up to show respect or honor, etc. Missionaries also seem to be able to engage in a range of local and personal cultural activities such as household responsibilities, education, different foods, social engagements, driving, etc. It was nice to see that while the cultures are very different, we have a lot of similar daily life activities.”

What things were different than you were expecting? What things were the same?

“We expected life to appear more challenging, but we were pleasantly surprised that their lifestyle seemed more collaborative and functional with a community, relational focus. Driving appeared chaotic – driving on the other side of the road than the US and with so many small motorcycles (called bodas) moving in and out of larger vehicle traffic. The weather was more enjoyable than we expected, even though it still felt hot and humid. We adapted better than we expected. Also, the natural beauty was a bonus. The mission work seems to be as deep and engaged as we thought and have read about in newsletters, but the relationships were stronger than we expected. Overall, we were well prepared for our trip, but there are still things we are trying to process from all that we saw.”

Is there anything you learned about the ministry or Uganda that you didn’t know before?

“The ministry work is much broader than we realized. With the mission work, Mbale Church of Christ, village churches, Messiah Theological Institute, discipleship groups, and other development projects, there’s a lot going on. But also with relationships with Livingstone International University and Good News Productions, we didn’t realize the relational connection with the mission work and their partnership with one another.”

What moment(s) from the trip will stay with you the longest?

“We will never forget our experience on safari and seeing so many animals up close! But also, we saw that daily life can be simple and is unique for each person or family. Sometimes we overcomplicate or fill our lives with too much. Another thing that will stick with us is the reminder that relationships are so important for everything. Sometimes we get too busy for people, but they are who matter.”

What would you like to share about your trip for others to know?

Don’t wait!! Visit when your heart calls you. For us, making the journey and experiencing the culture convicted us in regards to the American lifestyle of individualism and divisiveness. This trip increased our desire for deepening relationships with God, and with others in our own life and community. I hope more people will take the opportunity to visit you and Uganda.”

How to Pray for TCKs / MKs

For those who don’t know, a Third Culture Kid (TCK) is a person who has spent a significant part of his or her developmental years outside the parents’ culture. A TCK builds relationships to all of the cultures they experience while not having full ownership in any. Although elements from each culture are assimilated into a TCK life experience, the sense of belonging is in relationship to others of a similar background. A Missionary Kid (MK) is a subset of TCK – they are born or raised abroad, and have both the privilege and the challenge of growing up in their family’s place of ministry. Adalyn is an MK. She has spent 10 years in Uganda. She came to Uganda as a toddler and is now a teenager. She is part American, part Ugandan, with several of other cultures that have influenced her since living in an international community.

A TCK/MK has some unique needs. Here are some ways to pray for Adalyn as she continue to grow into the woman God has created her to be…

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Journey to Uganda – 10 Years In

Many of you have asked how we got to Uganda. Some of you have been with us throughout the long journey, but some of you are new to reading our blog and don’t know the full story. So, as we celebrate 10 years in Uganda, here’s the story. It’s a long one, so be prepared….

In 2010, Leland and I went on a “once in a lifetime” trip to visit our friend who was living in Nairobi, Kenya. We went on safari at Masai Mara, and then we took a 12-hour bus ride across the border to Jinja, Uganda to white water raft on the Nile River. Like I said, it was a once in a lifetime trip! One evening, Leland and I were walking around the village near the camp we were staying, and we asked the question “Could we live in a place like this? Our friend lives here, could we?” And thus the seed was planted…

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Thankful in the Midst of Hard

I am in a season right now where I am feeling HARD of life in Uganda! In our training at Missions Training International, we learned that as missionaries, we wake up at a higher stress level than we used to when we lived in our own passport cultures by almost double. We have learned to adjust and adapt, and even thrive in our lives here in Uganda. But sometimes, all the things that we can normally manage become overwhelming: things that shouldn’t take as long as they do; having to go to several stores and still not finding the food items we want for months on end; instability of consistent water, electricity, and sunshine (which the combination is needed to do laundry); household items that continuously break without the ease of buying a new one or getting it repaired correctly; good mechanics are impossible to find and roads tear up our vehicles; having work done on the house NEVER goes how we expect or want, often with errors, lack of appropriate tools or supplies, and any mistakes are at our expense; and don’t get me started on driving with the “mosquitos” we call bodas (small motorcycle taxis) that swarm the streets in ridiculously large numbers. We typically manage these daily challenges, and they have been part of our lives for the past 10 years. We have not only adapted to these things, but things have also improved with more options available in town, people we can call when we need repairs, people who help us find things we need from town and even deliver them to us, and a community of friends that is always willing to help in all sorts of situations. In the midst of the HARD, I can also see the GOOD.

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Relationship, NOT a Class

Jesus was a disciplemaker! Sure, He was a teacher, healer, miracle worker, resurrecter, rebel-rouser, and troublemaker, too. But first and foremost, when you comb through the pages which describe Jesus’ life, He was a disciplemaker. He was a RELATIONAL disciplemaker.

Jesus spent the majority of His time in ministry, for three years, creating, strengthening, and intentionally utilizing relationships in order to make disciples who will, eventually, make disciples. He would preach and teach in synagogues and hillsides, but in-between formal teaching times he would go to weddings, have meals, travel by foot, take boat rides, and many other things of everyday life. It is in these times that we see Jesus make use of His greatest tool to make disciplemakers – intentional relationships. He took full advantage of these times to share truths about God’s Kingdom, God’s nature, the Holy Spirit, His coming crucifixion and resurrection, Kingdom priorities, and so much more.

As people and leaders who follow Jesus, we look at His way of doing ministry. I heard once, “If you want to see the teachings of Jesus with the results of Jesus, then you better use the methods of Jesus.” So as disciplemakers in our homes, communities, and Uganda, we strive to focus our energy on intentional disciplemaking relationships.

What’s the difference between teaching a class and relational disciplemaking?

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It’s Time to Grow Up!

That was the theme at the Leaders’ Conference 2025. We gathered with 150 church leaders from 68 churches from across Eastern Uganda to focus on what God has in store and in mind for us as leaders. And we chose to focus on Ephesians 4…and boy, did it hit home!

Ephesians 4 is such a powerful chapter where Paul is talking with this group of leaders and a church that he has a close, personal relationship (as we see in Acts 20). These are people whom he has poured out his heart, mind, and life. He begins the book of Ephesians giving God glory and thanks for all the growth and faith of the Ephesian church: “For this reason, ever since I heard about your faith in the Lord Jesus and your love for all God’s people, I have not stopped giving thanks for you, remembering you in my prayers.” (Ephesians 1:15-16) Paul is encouraged by their faith, but he still wants to urge them – to push them – into something deeper and more mature. He begins from chapter 1 praying that they “may know him better” (1:17) and that God will strengthen them to “have power to grasp” the immeasurable love of God (3:18) in order that they “may be filled to the measure of all the fullness of God” (3:19). Paul is praying some POWERFUL prayers for his friends in Ephesus.

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Women’s DiscipleMaking

It is exciting to see how God’s kingdom continue to expand not just with pastors and men, but also with women. Since 2018, there have been three women’s discipleship groups that have concluded their meetings, and there are two women’s discipleship groups that are currently meeting in two different villages with women from area churches in the same cluster. These clusters are made up of area churches who come together for encouragement and helping one another.

At the end of April, the first two women discipleship groups met together for a time of prayer, encouragement, and spurring on one another to making disciplemakers. These groups started in 2018 and 2019, so we moved together through two Covid-related lockdowns and restrictions that delayed our group meetings, extending our time together for more than three years. It was a challenging journey for both groups, and we completed the groups unsure how the ladies would take disciplemaking to their churches and villages.

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A Little Glimpse of Heaven

One of my favorite things about living in Uganda is hearing the many different languages. While sometimes it’s a little overwhelming to be surrounded by languages I don’t understand, I am reminded of how diverse our world really is. When I hear other people praying to God in their native tongue or are singing worship to our God in a variety of languages, it makes me think of heaven.

This world has so many different people, cultures, and languages. What an amazing God we have to create so many unique people! And while sometimes we get distracted by our differences, it is so refreshing to share the unity in Christ when I come together with brothers and sisters in Uganda and recognize there are so many amazing things we can celebrate about one another.

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Highs & Lows of Mission Work

I remember when I used to play high school football in Texas. Every Saturday I was a different person because every Friday held its own highs and lows. Many times, my family didn’t want to spend time with me the Saturday after a Friday night loss because I was a different person. It’s silly now, but they were right: my identity was wrapped up in what happened in the Friday night lights, so the high or low greatly impacted my Saturday (and often Sundays).

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Retreat is a Good Thing

In a life that is so busy, we often forget to make time to retreat, to get away, to intentionally rest. We don’t make the time or we feel guilty because we think maybe we should be doing other things with our time. But I have learned I need retreat. Not just the Sunday afternoon naps, although those are very restful and needed, but also the intentional time with God, by myself, and with others. A happy balance of all those elements is so refreshing for my soul.

Throughout scripture, Jesus gets away to be by himself and with God. If Jesus saw the importance of that time, why don’t we also make that time a priority? In Mark 1:35, Jesus went to a solitary place to pray after a long day before of healing many people. He spent the night praying to God in Luke 6:12 before appointing the twelve apostles. After a long day of ministry and the miracle of feeding the 5000 in Matthew 14:22-23, Jesus spent time alone to pray. Even at the end of his earthly ministry, he knew he needed time alone with God in prayer. In Mark 14:32, Jesus took a few of his disciples along with him to pray in Gethsemane. We all need that time of prayer, refreshment of our soul.

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