Missionary Parent Perspective

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When my son and daughter-in-law asked me to write a blog post about what it’s like to be a parent of missionaries, I immediately replied, “Of course!” because that’s what we do. We help them in any way we can. But when I tried to start writing, it was much more difficult than I anticipated. Not because I didn’t want to write it. Not because I couldn’t write it. Not because it was too much to ask. There are just so many different aspects and emotions wrapped up in it that I couldn’t figure out where to begin. I wasn’t sure I could accurately explain or describe it all, and above all else, I didn’t want to leave any parent with the feeling that they should try to persuade their own child not to go into the mission field. Because if your child is being called to the mission field, not only should they go, but they need to know that their parents support them.

With that being said….here it goes…

Let me start by saying that, above all else, being the parent of missionaries brings me great joy – joy that surpasses any of the other emotions. I feel immensely privileged and blessed to be able to be a part of it.

Is it hard to have them so far away? Yes. 

Do I wish I could see them more? Yes.

Does it mean working through different emotions (sometimes on a daily basis)? Yes.

Does it take a lot of open communication? Yes.

Does it seem to hurt even more when you know they are hurting? Yes.

Does it take a lot of prayer? Yes. 

But is it worth it? Yes. Yes. And yes.

Being a parent of a missionary means giving in to God every single moment. It means knowing that your son and his family are right where they need to be, even when it’s difficult for them – and for you. The only way to maintain a positive heart is by holding on to the truth that God is in control and leaving it all with Him. Fully trusting God is when the comfort, pride, joy, excitement, and contentment begin to flow.

Being a parent of a missionary means putting in extra effort. We get to help take care of things on this side of the world for them that they aren’t able to do from a developing country, as well as help coordinate visits and appointments when they are on home assignment. It also means going to visit them as often as possible. Seeing what they do each day and meeting the people they interact with on a daily basis not only brings great comfort, but also brings deep pride. It gives me a glimpse of the impact they are making, which just helps solidify that it’s all worth it.

Being a parent of a missionary means making sacrifices. Yes, I know that the sacrifices are for the kingdom of Heaven, but I’m human, so sometimes it’s hard knowing my kids and grand-daughter are literally on the other side of the world. That’s why I thank God every day – not only for giving me a son and daughter-in-law who are willing to make even greater sacrifices for the kingdom, but also for the way they communicate with us and include us in their lives. It brings such comfort and joy to help them and to know that they truly want us to be a part of their journey.

Being a parent of a missionary means putting in some emotional work. It means having difficult conversations and asking/answering hard questions. It means acknowledging and working through emotions together. It means accepting reality and then giving it to God in order to meet it head on. Communication between us and our kids is crucial –  even (and especially) when it’s hard. We acknowledge the sacrifices they are making, and they recognize the sacrifices that we are making as well. Some days, I’m not sure which one of us is missing the other more, so the ability to comfort one another is a true blessing.

When my son and his wife told me that they were considering moving to Uganda as missionaries, I honestly don’t remember my initial emotional response. That’s probably because there were simply too many emotions all at once. Even now – 10+ years later –  I still experience a range of feelings. But above anything else, being a parent of missionaries brings me deep pride, excitement, and joy. I know my missionary kids are right where they are meant to be. And I thank God for it every day.

Growing in Love – For God and For Others

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In 1 Corinthians 13:1-3, the Apostle Paul says, “If I speak in the tongues of men or of angels, but do not have love, I am only a resounding gong or a clanging cymbal. If I have the gift of prophecy and can fathom all mysteries and all knowledge, and if I have a faith that can move mountains, but do not have love, I am nothing. If I give all I possess to the poor and give over my body to hardship that I may boast, but do not have love, I gain nothing.”

  • Nothing we do, however many church buildings we construct, goat projects we begin, preachers we train, or Bibles we give – NONE of it matters if we do not LOVE!
  • No miracles! No healings! No prophecies! No great sermons! 
  • Nothing matters, if we do not love!

Last month, at the Leaders’ Conference, we focused on GROWING IN LOVE FOR GOD AND FOR OTHERS as a central element to growing up in spiritual maturity and leading others to grow up in maturity. In order for God’s Kingdom to grow deeper and wider, our LOVE FOR GOD and LOVE FOR OTHERS has to grow deeper and wider!
We can’t grow in spiritual maturity without growing in LOVE.
We can’t help others grow in spiritual maturity without growing in LOVE.

Paul wrote in Philippians 1:9-11, “And this is my prayer: that your love may abound more and more in knowledge and depth of insight, so that you may be able to discern what is best and may be pure and blameless for the day of Christ, filled with the fruit of righteousness that comes through Jesus Christ—to the glory and praise of God.” Paul is saying that his prayer for those in the church in Philippi is that they can grow in love, more and more. That they will be known as a people of LOVE. Why does he want them to grow in love? 

  • So that they may be able to discern what is best – what God wants them to do
  • So that they may be pure and blameless before God
  • So that they will be filled with the fruit of righteousness through Jesus
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Memories from Tyler Homeschool Co-op

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I have been at Tyler Homeschool Co-op since kindergarten. It has been a place for me to learn and grow alongside my friends and people who love me. It’s a place where I have not only grown physically and in education, but also spiritually. To honor my time at Tyler Homeschool Co-op, I wanted to share some of my memories of my time there.

1. What do you remember about starting your first day of school at Tyler?

I only know what I did because my friends and parents remember it. I had been going to a Ugandan school for pre-school, but I had to leave there because I was scared of the big kids because I was singled out for being different (not Ugandan) and it was overwhelming to me. I started homeschool with my mom before I was able to join kindergarten at Tyler. I thought that there would be more mean big kids, so I was scared. I was crying because I really didn’t want to go, but eventually, I calmed down and made two best friends in my class who have been my classmates for all 9 years I’ve been at Tyler.

2. What were some of your favorite special events you did?

I enjoyed when my parents would plan a fun day at school like “pirate day”, STEAM day, or Star Wars Day. My favorite thing that they planned has been Field Day. Field Day is a whole school event where student teams compete in different activities, races, and games. Parents and teachers were all around to help and the day was full of excitement and energy. I always enjoyed playing, running and having fun at Field Day.

3. What was your favorite year of school?

My favorite year of Tyler was around 3-4 years ago when I had Mr. Stu as my teacher. He was an amazing teacher and I really enjoyed learning from him. That year was also when my all of my friends were still at Tyler. (Several of them graduated or left Tyler after that year to go to a boarding school for upper level grades). I had Mr. Stu for 2 years and I really enjoyed those years because he taught us so much. He also taught us so many different sports, which I loved. I learned rugby, field hockey, football, netball and much more.

4. What were your favorite things to do at recess?

I always enjoy recess because the whole school usually plays games together, and I like being active. As I became one of the older kids at Tyler, I was put in charge by the other kids to pick the game at recess. Every day, I would have kids asking me the same question over and over: “What are we playing at recess?” Most times it drove me insane, but I would typically pick the first person who gave me an idea. My favorite games we played were zombie tag, capture the flag, and “the floor is lava”. My dad also had a gaga pit built, so we enjoyed that. We often went through phases of playing different games like football (soccer), dodgeball, and playing on the tire swing.

5. What has been the most impactful part of being at Tyler school?

I think what has most impacted me about my time at Tyler is how everyone cares for each other, and shows the love of Jesus to every one around them. In my last year at Tyler, we did service projects where our whole school would go to different organizations around Mbale and serve there by playing games with kids, sharing a time of worship, doing crafts or reading to them. It was really amazing when we got to the organization, how everyone there lit up when they saw us.

6. What will you miss the most?

I will miss seeing my friends everyday and being able to interact with them. I love how I am always surrounded by my friends, and they are always there to support me. I think that it is going to be a hard transition from seeing them every day to seeing them once a week.

Tyler Homeschool Co-op through the school years (August 2017 – May 2026)

How to Care for Missionaries and TCKs on Visits…

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It’s hard to believe we are preparing for our 6th home assignment trip back to the U.S. and it’s hard to believe we’ve been in Uganda for more than 10 years. With those years has come some lessons learned, both on the field and while we’re traveling around the U.S. There are some things we have recognized about ourselves and about our family, friends and supporters over the years of our relationship.

First of all, to be 100% honest: home assignment isn’t a vacation or break! We are NOT traveling to and around America for a break from life and ministry in Uganda; we are traveling in order to report and raise support FOR our life and ministry in Uganda. We don’t refer to it as “furlough” because that suggests rest. It is not a vacation. Traveling to so many different places, staying in other people’s homes, eating too much food and drinking too much coffee is not relaxing. And while we are very thankful for the opportunities that traveling to America affords us (reconnecting with churches, friends, and family), it is often more stressful, more exhausting, and we feel more foreign as we visit so many people and places. It is an important part of our mission work, and we have learned over the years of travel, there are things we (and you) can do to help this time not be so stressful for our family, and other missionaries.

We are blessed to be loved, cared for, and supported through all of life – whether in Uganda or traveling around America. THANK YOU for asking good questions, asking us what we need or want while we’re traveling, offering your homes for us to rest, seeking opportunities to get to know us better, and helping us relax while we’re traveling. We see you and appreciate you! But we also know from our experience, and from the experience of others, that some of you WANT so desperately to bless, encourage, and help, but may not know how to help. So, HERE are a few ways you can help missionaries feel loved and supported while they are in their home country…

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Good Questions to Ask Missionaries & TCKs

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A regular part of our life as missionaries is returning to our passport country for home assignment (previously known as “furlough”). This will be our first time back to America since the summer of 2024 (two full years) and our sixth such trip since we moved to Uganda in January 2016. Like many other missionaries, our home assignment is filled with activity – visiting churches and supporters to report on our work, additional fundraising, spending time with family and friends, and attempting to recharge our hearts and minds. These trips help us stay in touch with the people who enable us to do our mission and provide a brief respite from the stresses and strains of everyday life in a (beloved) foreign culture.

But these trips also come with their own stressors: It means living out of a suitcase for a couple of months and staying in the homes of other people; It means being on our best behavior as the spotlight is shown on us whenever we arrive at supporting churches; It means trying to compact our whole life, heart, and ministry into two, five, or ten minute sound bites to take advantage of the opportunity we have to tell others the stories that give the ministry richness and meaning. It means many miles spent together in a borrowed vehicle as our family travels from one location to another. It means trying to split our time between family members who want to see us and the work we need to do while in America. It means still maintaining a spiritual “presence” and leadership role in Uganda while also preaching, sharing, and living in churches across several states.

As another missionary states: “We’ve been told that Home Assignment is meant for rest. We’ve also been told it’s meant for fundraising. And for reconnecting with family. And for sharing stories and photos at supporting churches. And for finding new people who might be interested in our ministry. And for reflection and prayer and rejuvenating ourselves before diving in again on the mission field. And…and…and…” (Click THIS BLOG for the full story.)

For us…we are blessed! We are blessed because our hosts, supporters, and meetings are with dear friends and loved ones. God blessed us with the honor of serving with partners who know and love us, so our time is more relational than many other missionaries we know. But it’s still hard to be away from home while also visiting “home;” and with several well-meaning people assuming we are enjoying an extended vacation stateside.

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Uganda – From a Visitor’s Perspective

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As we have mentioned before, we love hosting visitors! We are so thankful when people make the sacrifice of time and finances to come experience Uganda with us. Not only do they get to see the ministry, but they can also relate to our life a little better. In March, we had some very dear friends come to visit and we asked them to share their thoughts about their visit to Uganda. Hopefully this will encourage YOU to come visit, too!

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How to Pray for TCKs / MKs

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For those who don’t know, a Third Culture Kid (TCK) is a person who has spent a significant part of his or her developmental years outside the parents’ culture. A TCK builds relationships to all of the cultures they experience while not having full ownership in any. Although elements from each culture are assimilated into a TCK life experience, the sense of belonging is in relationship to others of a similar background. A Missionary Kid (MK) is a subset of TCK – they are born or raised abroad, and have both the privilege and the challenge of growing up in their family’s place of ministry. Adalyn is an MK. She has spent 10 years in Uganda. She came to Uganda as a toddler and is now a teenager. She is part American, part Ugandan, with several of other cultures that have influenced her since living in an international community.

A TCK/MK has some unique needs. Here are some ways to pray for Adalyn as she continue to grow into the woman God has created her to be…

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Oh the Life We Live…

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In the past, we have shared different blogs about the funny, beautiful and challenging things about living in Uganda – things that make us smile, things that drive us crazy, things we marvel at, and things that give us a serious laugh. I’ll list some old blog posts at the bottom of this post about the different aspects of life here. But in all of it, we regularly say “oh the life we live…”

For example, every morning, we wake up to ask the question “Is electricity and water on”? We have a small community WhatsApp group that is regularly messaging about power or water issues. It’s an every day thing! We are used to it, mostly. But there are time when electricity or water has been off longer than anticipated, so we have to ask others to determine if it’s an area issue or only at our home. There is solidarity of community in “suffering” when electricity or water is off for everyone, rather than the panic and going into “fix it” mode when it turns out to be just our house.

There are many times when products are no longer in stock – staple items that you might not fathom could be out of stock for months at a time. There was a period of several months when the ladies in the community were having ongoing conversations about how butter had been gone, and we were not sure how long it would be gone, so when some of us traveled to Jinja (about 2 hours away) for a weekend and found 6 sticks of butter – we bought them all! Frozen chicken and beef are regularly not missing. Yes, I could get a live chicken and slaughter it myself, but I have my limits. 😂 A good brand of toilet paper many people really like went out of stock without any knowledge of when it will come back (and yes, we have a favorite toilet paper). You might be thinking, just get another brand of toilet paper, but that’s easier said than done. Most of the options are either like using a soft sand paper or tissue paper – not ideal. 🤨 I don’t usually trust box food (cake mixes, cereal, oatmeal, bread crumbs, etc) because I’m unsure how long it’s been on the shelves and I have found them full of weevils on many occasions. No thank you! We also get excited when a new product comes into town for a little while, like chocolate chips, shampoo/conditioner, cream cheese, or American-recognized brands. We can’t expect them, so it’s a nice treat when “special” items arrive. We never know how long they’ll be there, but we rejoice for the moment. And we often take photos to share with one another, in case someone else might want the product.

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Goals & Plans for 2026

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January is a time of year of dreaming big for what’s to come! It’s an exciting time, full of hope and possibilities. People make resolutions, big life changes, and dare to dream BIG! As a mission here in Mbale, we also want to dream (and PRAY) for big things in this New Year!

We are praying BIG THINGS for 2026. The first BIG thing we are praying and planning for is the Leadership Team. Last year, we started meeting regularly with leaders, who have been discipled and moved closely with over the past decade, to involve them in decisions, planning, discerning, and guiding the overall ministry. These are leaders who have traveled around with us to visit churches near and far, so they have a feel for the needs of leaders from all over Uganda. They are also men and women who we’ve seen fruit of spiritual maturity in their lives – and seen them actively making disciples – so they are able to think of Godly solutions in difficult circumstances. This year, our plan is to empower them more and more as the year goes by, so that their voices grow and their impact deepens. We believe this kind of leadership team is vital to the future of the mission work here in Uganda.

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Journey to Uganda – 10 Years In

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Many of you have asked how we got to Uganda. Some of you have been with us throughout the long journey, but some of you are new to reading our blog and don’t know the full story. So, as we celebrate 10 years in Uganda, here’s the story. It’s a long one, so be prepared….

In 2010, Leland and I went on a “once in a lifetime” trip to visit our friend who was living in Nairobi, Kenya. We went on safari at Masai Mara, and then we took a 12-hour bus ride across the border to Jinja, Uganda to white water raft on the Nile River. Like I said, it was a once in a lifetime trip! One evening, Leland and I were walking around the village near the camp we were staying, and we asked the question “Could we live in a place like this? Our friend lives here, could we?” And thus the seed was planted…

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